Tag: divorce help
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Pre-Divorce Planning
If you are considering divorce, which is not just a deeply emotional decision, but also one of the largest financial decisions you will make in your life, you may feel like you want as much information as possible to help you discern if divorce is the best option for you. Before you file papers, I…
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Divorce Timeline in CA
In California, the timeline for divorce filings follows a structured path, designed to ensure fairness and due process for all parties involved. Here’s a high-level breakdown of what to expect (*additional forms required for cases with minor children): Filing the Petition (Form FL-100): The divorce process begins when one spouse files a petition for dissolution…
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When Mediation Isn’t Working
To start, I would like to say that I am absolutely pro-Mediation. I think it’s the best option for MOST divorcing couples for many reasons. I am not alone in this opinion – mediation is often touted as an ideal solution for divorcing couples, promoting communication and collaboration, efficiency, and cost savings. HOWEVER, not every…
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Holidays in Divorce
The holiday season is often synonymous with joy, festivities, and cherished moments with loved ones. However, for those navigating life during or after a divorce, the prospect of celebrating holidays can be a source of stress and uncertainty. Despite the challenges, careful planning and a positive mindset can help make the holidays a time of…
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Divorce Coaches and Marriage Family Therapists
Two valuable sources of support during divorce are certified divorce coaches and marriage and family therapists (MFTs). In this blog post, we’ll explore the key differences between these two professionals and how each can play a crucial role in the divorce process. High level overview: I think of a Divorce Coach as an advisor who…
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Divorce Brain is Real
Divorce is an emotionally charged journey that affects every facet of your life. Amidst the turmoil, have you ever experienced what some refer to as “Divorce Brain”? If you haven’t heard of it, don’t worry – it’s a recognized phenomenon within the divorce professional realm. Let’s dive into what it means, why it happens, and…
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It Takes Two to Save Money in Divorce
While most clients aren’t thrilled about communicating with each other during divorce, both spouses typically have a shared goal of minimizing money spent on legal battles. The best way to do this is by working together to get your documents organized and come to the negotiating table with some reasonable ideas in mind.
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Divorce Process in CA – Steps 1 and 2
In California, there are 4 main parts of the legal divorce process, beginning with filing for divorce. This information is pulled from https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/divorce/start-divorce/file which is a great resource for Californians looking for more information about the divorce process. Of course, if you hire an attorney or mediator, these professionals will help you with this process.…
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Is Your Home Equity Separate or Marital?
In divorce, the marital home is often the biggest asset the couple owns. If the home was purchased during the marriage with marital funds, the equity in the home will be considered 100% marital and therefore split 50/50 in CA. Complications arise if the home was owned by one spouse prior to the marriage, or…
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Reality Check: Spousal Maintenance
if you and your spouse have chosen for you to stay home to raise children while your spouse has continued to work, you cannot rely on a spousal support award that will allow you to never work again. The reality is that the standard of living for both spouses statistically decreases by 40% following a…