Tag: CDFA
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Pre-Divorce Planning
If you are considering divorce, which is not just a deeply emotional decision, but also one of the largest financial decisions you will make in your life, you may feel like you want as much information as possible to help you discern if divorce is the best option for you. Before you file papers, I…
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Divorce Timeline in CA
In California, the timeline for divorce filings follows a structured path, designed to ensure fairness and due process for all parties involved. Here’s a high-level breakdown of what to expect (*additional forms required for cases with minor children): Filing the Petition (Form FL-100): The divorce process begins when one spouse files a petition for dissolution…
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Post-Divorce Checklist
1. Remove Your Ex-Spouse’s Name From Accounts Go through your accounts and be sure to adjust the registrations. Pay special attention to any accounts that will be reporting to credit bureaus and any financial accounts. Re-title any vehicles in your name alone. 2. Establish Your Own Financial Identity If you haven’t already, get a credit card in…
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When Mediation Isn’t Working
To start, I would like to say that I am absolutely pro-Mediation. I think it’s the best option for MOST divorcing couples for many reasons. I am not alone in this opinion – mediation is often touted as an ideal solution for divorcing couples, promoting communication and collaboration, efficiency, and cost savings. HOWEVER, not every…
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Holidays in Divorce
The holiday season is often synonymous with joy, festivities, and cherished moments with loved ones. However, for those navigating life during or after a divorce, the prospect of celebrating holidays can be a source of stress and uncertainty. Despite the challenges, careful planning and a positive mindset can help make the holidays a time of…
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Divorce Coaches and Marriage Family Therapists
Two valuable sources of support during divorce are certified divorce coaches and marriage and family therapists (MFTs). In this blog post, we’ll explore the key differences between these two professionals and how each can play a crucial role in the divorce process. High level overview: I think of a Divorce Coach as an advisor who…
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Is Divorce Draining You? Here’s your pep talk.
Divorce brings a whirlwind of emotions, legalities, and life-altering decisions. It’s unfortunately also not a quick process – often times taking 1-2 years or more to finalize. You will hear that divorce is a marathon, not a sprint, and just like mile 20 makes runners want to collapse, people going through divorce often want to…
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Divorce Brain is Real
Divorce is an emotionally charged journey that affects every facet of your life. Amidst the turmoil, have you ever experienced what some refer to as “Divorce Brain”? If you haven’t heard of it, don’t worry – it’s a recognized phenomenon within the divorce professional realm. Let’s dive into what it means, why it happens, and…
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It Takes Two to Save Money in Divorce
While most clients aren’t thrilled about communicating with each other during divorce, both spouses typically have a shared goal of minimizing money spent on legal battles. The best way to do this is by working together to get your documents organized and come to the negotiating table with some reasonable ideas in mind.